Erinn SouleLove at first sight?
March 10th 2008 14:46
Link: www.souledoutmusic.net
Love at first sight sounds like something in a fairytale, but it is real. I myself experienced this type of love and so did my husband! We were still in high school, dating other people when we met.
I was in 10th grade and he was a senior. We both just knew that we were supposed to be together. He told me that when he first saw me that he told his friend standing next to him that I was the one he was going to marry one day...he did exactly that, 4 years later.
People will either have a chemistry or not, love cannot be forced and shouldn't be. When you are going to spend much time with someone, especially an eternity, then you need to be friends with that person, trust them, and feel natural around them. I believe love at first site is all of those things.
From a deeper point of view, I believe that our lives have a path and we choose to follow that path or not. I understand not everyone adopts this way of thinking today, but I certainly do and try to follow that path. I have fell off a few times along the way but always manage to find my way back.
Love at first sight merely means that you know from the moment you meet someone if they are meant for you. If you just "click" instantly, feel like you have known that person for ages, feel comfortable and secure that is a good sign that it could very well be love at first sight.
Love at first sight does not always mean that you are destined to be together or even stay together. It simply means you have an instant love or feeling for that person, the key to it being real and lasting is if they have it too.
I also wish to comment on age, I do believe that until we hit a certain age, we do not understand love. As a child we only experience "unconditional love" which should not be confused with love at first sight. We need to be mature in our life and mature in age to know what love at first sight even means.
When it happens it is a glorious feeling though, that I can tell you. It is sort of a fairytale feeling and can be an exciting, emotional and sometimes disappointing time in ones' life. Knowing when it is love at first sight will be different for everyone. For me it was a feeling deep inside, a look, a smile and unspoken words between the two of us.
I was in 10th grade and he was a senior. We both just knew that we were supposed to be together. He told me that when he first saw me that he told his friend standing next to him that I was the one he was going to marry one day...he did exactly that, 4 years later.
People will either have a chemistry or not, love cannot be forced and shouldn't be. When you are going to spend much time with someone, especially an eternity, then you need to be friends with that person, trust them, and feel natural around them. I believe love at first site is all of those things.
From a deeper point of view, I believe that our lives have a path and we choose to follow that path or not. I understand not everyone adopts this way of thinking today, but I certainly do and try to follow that path. I have fell off a few times along the way but always manage to find my way back.
Love at first sight merely means that you know from the moment you meet someone if they are meant for you. If you just "click" instantly, feel like you have known that person for ages, feel comfortable and secure that is a good sign that it could very well be love at first sight.
Love at first sight does not always mean that you are destined to be together or even stay together. It simply means you have an instant love or feeling for that person, the key to it being real and lasting is if they have it too.
I also wish to comment on age, I do believe that until we hit a certain age, we do not understand love. As a child we only experience "unconditional love" which should not be confused with love at first sight. We need to be mature in our life and mature in age to know what love at first sight even means.
When it happens it is a glorious feeling though, that I can tell you. It is sort of a fairytale feeling and can be an exciting, emotional and sometimes disappointing time in ones' life. Knowing when it is love at first sight will be different for everyone. For me it was a feeling deep inside, a look, a smile and unspoken words between the two of us.
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